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Jan26th2013

Parents create housing alternative for disabled adult children

Baruch and Joyce Schur were out of options. They couldn’t find anywhere for their physically and intellectually disabled 26-year-old son to live, at least nowhere that met their criteria or didn’t have a years-long waiting list.

The 55-year-old couple made plans to move out of state. Uprooting themselves from their native Chicago, leaving friends and a family business, was the only way to give Josh a home – not an institution – that offered independence, a kosher kitchen and a sense of community before his parents became too elderly to care for him.

But then the Schurs took an even bolder step. They joined forces with five other families in similar circumstances to do what government could not: They created something better.

They become a nonprofit, raised their own funds, bought their own property, hired a design team and a social services agency to staff a home. This month, six young men – with cerebral palsy, autism and Down Syndrome – moved into a lovely red-brick Georgian on a quiet, leafy block in the same Chicago neighborhood, Rogers Park, where they grew up.

Other parent-empowered groups are also rolling up their sleeves, joining this quiet crusade. A Glenview, Ill., couple has partnered with Rush University Medical Center to construct housing for young adults with autism in Chicago’s West Loop. In Wheaton, Ill., another family group collaborated with their church for a similar project.

In a previous era, children such as Josh would have been institutionalized, their parents told to leave them in the hospital and forget about them. Today, because of medical advances and sweeping public policy changes, children with disabilities are not just surviving but thriving into adulthood. And no one knows what to do with them all.

There are 1 million to 1.5 million Americans with autism alone, 80 percent of whom are younger than 22, according to the Centers for Disease Control. In Illinois, some 22,500 people with disabilities are waiting for services, reports the Department of Human Services.

“The statistics are frightening,” said Tony Paulauski of the Arc of Illinois, an advocacy organization. “What’s going to happen to all these folks? We are bracing ourselves for a demographic wave … and we are totally unprepared.”

These young adults were born into a very different world than earlier generations. Parents started seeing their offspring for what they could do – not just what they couldn’t.

They pushed clinicians for more physical, occupational and speech therapy and lawmakers toward mainstreaming policies. No longer hidden away, these youngsters were now woven into society, participating in school plays, soccer and Boy Scouts.

Then, at age 22, most publicly-funded services end. As the kids get older, the journey gets lonelier. Some 80 percent of young adults with autism ages 19 to 30 still live at home, according to a 2008 Easter Seals study.

“People see how futile the situation is,” said Paulauski. “And as government continues to shrink, it becomes even more important that families look at other sustainable models.”

The Schurs, who have two other sons, were being consumed by the day-to-day challenges of raising a child with cerebral palsy. The doctor visits, the financial pressures, the physical demands all exact a steep toll. For example, Joyce Schur would call her husband at work when Josh needed to go to the bathroom because she could no longer lift her 130-pound son from his wheelchair.

By BONNIE MILLER RUBIN

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